What’s in your black box? It’s holding you back!
When I was a kid, all I wanted was to fit in. It was nearly impossible to blend in during the 70’s, an awkward, undiagnosed ADHD kid with chocolatey skin and the darkest hair. My parents, newly arrived immigrants, had…
You want a breakthrough? Get real!
You think you aren’t getting the results you want. Everything is fine, you say. The relationships, the confidence, your very person is poised for success. So, what’s the problem? The reality of your life boils down to this: your…
What do Michael Phelps, Brad Pitt and YOU have in common?
I remember the first time I saw Michael Phelps, winner of 16, count ’em 16 Olympic medals swimming for the U.S., I thought, “what is up that goofy, awkward kid?” I had this strange desire to grab his person and…
What’s your problem? The difference between challenges and problems…
I got problems, man! I have problems. Lots of problems. My husband is fourteen years older than me. I have seven children and there are problems associated with each one. The oldest lives far away and I’m not sure how…
Getting past the nutty to embrace your best life.
“If I fake it, then I know I don’t have it”…and other gems from What About Bob. One of my favorite movies of all time is “What About Bob,” the story of a totally neurotic yet somehow lovable guy…
Skydiving or Sex with your spouse for 30 days? You pick.
Did you know most people would rather jump out of a plane than sleep with their spouse for 30 days straight? What’s up with that? A climb to the top of Mount Rainer is less frightful than trying not to say anything about…